What is Social Emotional Learning?

SEL Defined

The Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning (CASEL) defines social and emotional learning (SEL) as an integral part of education and human development. SEL is the process through which all young people and adults acquire and apply the knowledge, skills, and attitudes to develop healthy identities, manage emotions and achieve personal and collective goals, feel and show empathy for others, establish and maintain supportive relationships, and make responsible and caring decisions.

SEL and Community Partners

Community partners (like grit & grace!) often provide safe and developmentally rich settings for learning and development, have deep understanding of community needs and assets, are seen as trusted partners by families and students, and have connections to additional supports and services that school and families need. Community programs also offer opportunities for young people to practice their social and emotional skills in settings that are both personally relevant and can open opportunities for their future.

Social Emotional Learning Pillars

The abilities to understand one’s own emotions, thoughts, and values and how they influence behavior across contexts.This includes capacities to recognize one’s strengths and limitations with a well-grounded sense of confidence and purpose.

  • Identifying Emotions

  • Accurate Self-Perception

  • Recognizing Strengths

  • Self-Confidence

  • Self-Efficacy

  • Having a Growth Mindset

Self-Awareness

The abilities to manage one’s emotions, thoughts, and behaviors effectively in different situations and to achieve goals and aspirations. This includes the capacities to delay gratification, manage stress, and feel motivation and agency to accomplish personal and collective goals.

  • Managing One’s Emotions

  • Identifying and Using Stress Management Strategies

  • Exhibiting Self-Discipline and Self-Motivation

  • Setting Personal and Collective Goals

  • Showing the Courage to Take Initiative

Self-Management

The abilities to understand the perspectives of and empathize with others, including those from diverse backgrounds, cultures, and contexts. This includes the capacities to feel compassion for others, understand broader historical and social norms for behavior in different settings, and recognize family, school, and community resources and supports.

  • Perspective Taking

  • Demonstrating Empathy and Compassion

  • Appreciating Diversity

  • Recognizing Situational Demands and Opportunities

  • Showing Respect to Others

Social Awareness

The abilities to establish and maintain healthy and supportive relationships and to effectively navigate settings with diverse individuals and groups. This includes the capacities to communicate clearly, listen actively, cooperate, work collaboratively to problem-solve and negotiate conflict constructively, navigate settings with differing social and cultural demands and opportunities, provide leadership, and seek or offer help when needed.

  • Communicating Effectively

  • Developing Positive Relationships

  • Practicing Teamwork and Collaborative Problem Solving

  • Resolving Conflicts Constructively

Relationship Skills

The abilities to make caring and constructive choices about personal behavior and social interactions across diverse situations. This includes the capacities to consider ethical standards and safety concerns, and to evaluate the benefits and consequences of various actions for personal, social, and collective well-being.

  • Demonstrating Curiosity and

    Open-Mindedness

  • Anticipating and Evaluating the Consequences of One’s Actions

  • Recognizing How Critical Thinking Skills Are Useful Both Inside and Outside of School

  • Identifying Solutions for Personal and Social Problems

Responsible Decision-Making